== 6.listen actively ==
I really like listening. Because listening gives us more knowledge. By listening we have a large number of benefits. Active listening involves listening with all senses. As well as giving full attention to the speaker, it is important that the ‘active listener’ is also ‘seen’ to be listening - otherwise the speaker may conclude that what they are talking about is uninteresting to the listener.
== 7.curb your enthusiasm ==
== 8.build your resilence ==
Resilience means being able to adapt to life's misfortunes and setbacks. Resilience won't make your problems go away, but resilience can give you the ability to see past them, find enjoyment in life and better handle stress. If you aren't as resilient as you'd like to be, you can develop and learn skills to become more resilient.
== 9.speak up ==
We have to speak up, because if we don't speak we'll never know what is advantages and disadvantages of that work. If we speak to more people we will collect a lot of information from them. Even if we got at least one useful thing from one person that will help us a lot. If something is on your mind, speak up and let him know. You have to decide if it's important enough to speak up. Engage yourself in class, speak up appropriately and take your studies seriously. Maybe the last situation was what gave her the courage to speak up when the inheritance tension came back.